WHAT IN YOUR LIFE NEEDS PRUNING THIS LENT?

This past weekend, in the dead of winter, my husband pruned the 53 vines in our quaint family vineyard, lovingly named: Frutto Della Vite, Italian for “Fruit of the Vine.” As Troy was out there chopping, cutting, making a gnarled mess of grapes vines, I watched him through our kitchen window and reflected on the spiritual significance of what my husband’s labor of love imaged for me. Through that window I saw clearly how his aggressive pruning of the grape vines was really a vision set before me of what God, the gardener and keeper of my soul,  desires to do to me –  PRUNE THE VINES OF MY LIFE.  Lent is a ideal time to reflect and act on this.  

Viewing nature through the eyes of faith can teach us a considerable amount about the interior life of our soul.

As Troy walks through our vineyard and prunes the vines, he not only cuts off diseased branches that if left unattended will infect the entire vine, but he also chops off perfectly healthy branches.  I am sure it is obvious why  he chops off the diseased branches, but why cut off perfectly healthy ones?  Too many branches growing on the vine does not allow for optimal sunlight to hit the budding grapes, thereby yielding a smaller harvest.  What’s more, a plethora of branches does not allow the vine to harness its energy on making grapes.  Instead its energy is divided among all the healthy branches just to keep them alive. 

WHAT DOES THIS HAVE TO DO WITH THE INTERIOR LIFE OF OUR SOUL?

Simply stated, everyone has healthy and unhealthy branches that need pruning in order for their soul to be strong and produce abundant Godly fruit.  A diseased branch might be an unhealthy relationship that clearly pulls you away from God rather than inspiring a Godly life.  It could be an addiction of any sort – eating too much food, watching too much television, overusing social media, engaging in pornography, drinking an unhealthy amount of alcohol, etc.  An unhealthy branch could also be a bad habit that is little by little taking away from the beauty of the life that God is longing to create in you and instead has created  an unhealthy attachment to someone or something.  What diseased branches need to be cut off in your life?

So what about those healthy branches?  This is a hard one for me! Healthy branches are the activities, and/or relationships that in and of themselves are not bad, but they are taking away from the energy you could otherwise put into developing the beauty of your interior life and relationship with God.  There are so many good things to be involved with, so many worthy causes to volunteer for, so many great people to invest your heart and time into, but you have to set boundaries for yourself if you hunger for  a healthy spiritual life. Pray about what activities in which you should invest your time.  Ask God to show you what relationships you should truly build and which ones are blips in your life for a season.   In the same way that having too many branches on one vine prevents the sun from shining on the budding grapes, having an abundance of branches on the vine of our life does not allow God’s love to fully penetrate our hearts. What healthy branches need pruning in your life?

Sometimes there may be branches in your life about which you question their integrity.  Ask God to cut them off if they are not healthy for your soul.  Recently God cut off a pretty big branch in my life and that of my husband that we had hung on to!  There were 2 couples that over the past few years we had spent a decent amount of time with at various gatherings and parties. Both of these couples are good people, with big hearts and love of God, but morally we were not aligned on many levels. Keeping up with the demands of friendships that were not spiritually aligned with our hearts took time and energy.  For awhile, I felt like God wanted us in their lives to evangelize; and frankly both Troy and I enjoyed their company and the wonderful parties that they hosted!  However, through a series of events, it became clear that God no longer wanted us to invest as much time in those friendships as we had in the past; and He in His way cut the branches.  We are all still friends, but there is now a mutual understanding that we are all feeling called to invest our time in other ways. People come in and out of our lives, and activities come and go.  The discernment process of our soul is knowing when each branch needs pruning and taking action to do it. 

If Troy had not pruned our vineyard when he did, we would have a very small crop of grapes this upcoming summer.  For our grapes, proper pruning during a certain window of time determines the outcome of fruit.  Unlike our vineyard though, you can prune at any time any branch in your life that you see needs pruning so you can experience optimal spiritual growth!  Don’t miss out on the abundance of fruit that God yearns to give you!

WHAT IN YOUR LIFE NEEDS PRUNING THIS LENT? 

 

 

 

WHAT IN YOUR LIFE NEEDS PRUNING THIS LENT?
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I am blessed to be a wife to my best friend, mother of five beautiful blessings and three more souls in Heaven. I write about living my faith as a wife and mother amidst the ordinary moments each day that God wants to make extraordinary! I also share my passion for total health - body and soul and my equal zest for living life intentionally in every season of life! I am an outdoor enthusiast, gardener, regular blogger on marriage for the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops Website, contributing author to the book "Amazing Grace for Mothers," a speaker, and a lover of life! WELCOME! Thank you for visiting my site!
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One thought on “WHAT IN YOUR LIFE NEEDS PRUNING THIS LENT?

  • March 7, 2018 at 1:34 pm
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    Just discovered your refreshing soul- filled blog this AM. The pruning of the good vines resonated with me….At age 75 I still find myself involved with too much good stuff in my life….possessions, projects, relationships, a lot of which involves serving others. God and I are having some serious discussions about this and he’s showing me that I need to cut back literally or else! The grapevine analogy helped me see more clearly what I need to do. And that the results could be so spectacular. Thanks!

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